{"id":125,"date":"2010-02-28T19:48:03","date_gmt":"2010-03-01T02:48:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/?p=125"},"modified":"2010-02-28T19:48:03","modified_gmt":"2010-03-01T02:48:03","slug":"wonderful-alone-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/?p=125","title":{"rendered":"Wonderful Alone Time!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When Erik has having a fit about not going on the train yesterday, I became evil wife and told him that daddy would take him on the train today.  &#8220;Daddy and you can ride the train to the zoo!&#8221;  It didn&#8217;t help the temper tantrum at that time, but he has a great memory and was all prepared for his train ride today.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know how Mike felt about such a promise, but he should be happy.  They were gone for five hours.  I feel human again.  If I didn&#8217;t get some much needed me time, I would have voluntarily committed myself to a mental institution.  Then where would he be? Up a creek without a nanny.<\/p>\n<p>It was glorious to sit around and not have a child on me.  I didn&#8217;t have to bark orders.  I didn&#8217;t have to fend off tongue.  I didn&#8217;t have to constantly tell a kid &#8220;cover up that wiener,&#8221;  I didn&#8217;t have to do anything for anybody but me for five whole hours.  It was the height of luxury!<\/p>\n<p>I watched an episode of Veronica Mars (I feel a full series re-watch coming on), read a couple of chapters, made some ugly breast pads that are supposed to be really absorbent, tried to quilt Elsa&#8217;s doll quilt, spent an hour picking out quilting, ate lunch.  All in all, I lead a life of excitement.  I really wanted to do something exciting, but the thought of standing on my feet for more than 10 minutes didn&#8217;t thrill me.  It was a lovely, lovely day no matter how domestic and boring it sounds.<\/p>\n<p>I feel bad that I have been having such negative feelings towards Erik.  He is actually a very sweet kid.  Who gets mad at their kid for being <i>too<\/i> loving?  He&#8217;s always been a snuggle bug.  It&#8217;s one of his strong points.  The pregnancy hormones make me way too touchy.  I am also lacking Vitamin D since our outside time has been severely curtailed.  <\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ramblequeen\/4397117464\/\" title=\"Erik and the Baby Panda by Ramble Queen, on Flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/farm3.static.flickr.com\/2715\/4397117464_b65a9eab98.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"334\" alt=\"Erik and the Baby Panda\" \/><\/a><\/center><\/p>\n<p>Seriously, how can I be so mean to such a sweet face?<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s chunking up again, which I love. He is so cute when he has those pink, chubby cheeks.  It is a bit worrisome, though.  He just shot up a few inches a few weeks ago.  We just bought a new wardrobe!  Most of the shirts are comically large on him, so maybe they&#8217;ll look a little more normal if he has another little growth spurt.  Here I&#8217;ve been patting myself on the back for my parenting prowess in regards to his eating habits, but I think he&#8217;s just hungry.<\/p>\n<p>If you recall, when he turned 4 I decided I was done being a short order cook.  He could eat what we eat for dinner.  Then, a couple of months ago, I decided I wasn&#8217;t giving him enough variety of fruits and vegetables so I bought some sectioned plates which force me to make sure he has at least four separate items on his plate.  It was really frustrating at first because I would fill each slot and he wouldn&#8217;t even try any of the things he didn&#8217;t already like.  Now he complains if I serve him on a regular plate instead of his special plates and he generally devours everything I give him.  He still has to warm up to totally new foods, but he has a lot more variety in his diet and is eating a lot healthier.  <\/p>\n<p>In other very exciting news, it looks like I am going to get to meet one of the very first bloggers I ever read!  Some of you may know <a href=\"http:\/\/secret-agent-josephine.com\/blog\/\">SAJ<\/a>.  I&#8217;m almost giddy!  I have been blogging since 2001.  I can&#8217;t remember when or how we met, but I know she was one of my first non-friend readers.  That&#8217;s a long time!  You may actually get to see some pregnant pictures of me this time around since I know she&#8217;ll have a camera with her.  Thus far Erik has been my only photographer and he doesn&#8217;t have a knack for capturing my best light.  He somehow manages to get lots of boob shots.  I think that&#8217;s his favorite part.  <\/p>\n<p>Speaking of the boy, he got quite a shock today.  He had his head laying on my belly and the baby gave him a huge kick in the face.  He&#8217;s felt her before, but nothing like that.  The look on his face was priceless.  I think she may have flipped this weekend.  I have been feeling most of the activity way down low&#8211;very painful!  But yesterday and today I&#8217;ve mostly been feeling kicks up around my ribs.  <\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s hoping for a much better week.  I have hope!  Mike is not supposed to be working until 8 pm every night and Erik has lunch bunch tomorrow (an extra hour of preschool).  We have things lined up every single day, so that should make the time go faster.  Let&#8217;s all do a sun dance and hope March comes in like a lamb <i>and<\/i> goes out like a lamb.  Would that be expecting too much?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When Erik has having a fit about not going on the train yesterday, I became evil wife and told him that daddy would take him on the train today. &#8220;Daddy and you can ride the train to the zoo!&#8221; It didn&#8217;t help the temper tantrum at that time, but he has a great memory and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-125","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=125"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=125"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=125"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=125"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}