{"id":210,"date":"2010-07-22T14:06:13","date_gmt":"2010-07-22T21:06:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/?p=210"},"modified":"2010-07-22T14:06:13","modified_gmt":"2010-07-22T21:06:13","slug":"never-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blog2.queenoframbles.com\/?p=210","title":{"rendered":"Never Again"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Erik&#8217;s camp is at the community center, which shares a parking lot with our outdoor public pool. On Monday I promised him that we could go to the pool one day after camp and I realized that today was it.  I don&#8217;t think we have another free afternoon in the next two weeks.<\/p>\n<p>Bad idea!<\/p>\n<p>Very, very bad!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m used to HOA pools that usually have picnic tables with shade next to the pools, but this place just had a grassy area with huge umbrellas.  They were far enough away from the pool that I wasn&#8217;t comfortable leaving Elsa in her stroller away from me or leaving Erik in the pool away from me (he had a floatie thing on).<\/p>\n<p>I used my new wrap to hold Elsa and went in the pool (never would have done that with the Moby, but this other wrap is thin enough that it didn&#8217;t feel weighed down).  Problem?  Babies can&#8217;t have sunscreen until they are 6 months and I forgot her sun hat.  Also, she was sleepy.  Finally she fell asleep with her feet dangling in the water, but it was really uncomfortable for me since I couldn&#8217;t bend down and let the water take her weight&#8211;she&#8217;d drown!  <\/p>\n<p>Eventually I did put her in her stroller and sat her semi-close to the pool, but the place was packed and I was paranoid something would happen to her or Erik.  They were both fine, of course, but you can never be too careful.  Splitting my attention two ways just doesn&#8217;t feel safe at the pool.  We won&#8217;t try that again unless I have another adult with me.<\/p>\n<p>It was a really cool pool.  They were closed for re-modelling last year and they came up with some really neat things.  They have one section of pool with ropes across and big floating &#8220;lilly pads and logs&#8221;.  The kids (or grown-ups) are supposed to balance on the pads and logs while holding onto the ropes and try to cross the pool.  I would have loved to give it a try if I was about 25 years younger.<\/p>\n<p>There were three camps there and one of the camps almost stole Erik.  After checking on Elsa I found him sitting in a line with all the campers.  I asked what he was doing and he pointed to a teenager and told me she told him he had to get out of the water and get ready to go.  I&#8217;m glad I noticed!  I don&#8217;t think he actually would have left with them, but who knows.  There seems to be a never-ending parade of teenagers working at his current camp so I guess he is used to listening to them.  <\/p>\n<p>He is still loving camp.  They have all the kids&#8217; names up on a whiteboard and give them stars when they are good.  He is very impressed with that idea and wants me to give him stars.  I noticed today that only one other camper has more stars than he has so I guess he&#8217;s being a good boy.  <\/p>\n<p>I know some of you use stars but I&#8217;ve been hesitant to do so because I&#8217;ve had bad luck with long term reward systems in my teachery past.  It all starts out great and the kids love getting rewards and I love having an easy behavior system, but after a few days\/weeks\/months the kids start expecting rewards and want a star for everything they do, even things that are not star worthy.  I find it very difficult to wean away from this system so have not wanted to start it up with Erik unless it was absolutely necessary.  I have friends with kids who potty trained around the same time Erik did and they still get M&#038;Ms every time they use the toilet.  I don&#8217;t like it when the system gets me by the tail. I&#8217;ll have to think about this further and see if I can give him stars without it becoming more trouble than it&#8217;s worth.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Erik&#8217;s camp is at the community center, which shares a parking lot with our outdoor public pool. On Monday I promised him that we could go to the pool one day after camp and I realized that today was it. I don&#8217;t think we have another free afternoon in the next two weeks. Bad idea! 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